New IM chat on alt.com

The world-famous kinky dating site alt.com announced a completely revamped Instant Messenger system. Click on the IM button in the right corner of your toolbar and check out the new look – and more importantly, all the new options.

When you open up an IM window, you’ll get a clean, easy-to-read list of everyone who’s online and available to chat. You have the option to filter the list by who and what you’re looking for, or to sort the list by distance or age as well as by who’s broadcasting on cam right now.

If you’re not ready for a real-time one-on-one interaction with someone, you can always send them a message – or, just add them to your Hotlist and find them later, when you’re not feeling so shy.

On the other hand, if you’re bold and motivated today (and have a webcam handy), you can start broadcasting your own cam show right from the IM window. Just tap the Start Broadcasting Now button to put on a show.

Other improvements include:
– The ability to send a flirt and send a friend request right from the IM chat window
– The photos you send to others can now be larger
– The decline and reply options for incoming IM requests are easier to locate and use

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CBT on the Red Square

Self CBT in public ? Yes ! A couple of days ago, on November 10, 2013, Petr Andreevich Pavlensky, a Russian conceptual artist and political activist hammered a nail through his scrotum into cobblestones outside Lenin’s Mausoleum, on the day Russia marked its Police Day national holiday. The artist said in a statement that he was trying to draw attention to Russian society’s inaction in the face of the development of a police state.

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Media reported the episode has happened in font of “hundreds of horrified tourists”. I’m wondering if there were instead some kinksters who greatly appreciate the show. : D

Needless to say the authorities did not appreciate the show as well. Policemen on Red Square quickly responded by first covering the naked artist with a blanket. The artist was then taken into custody and hospitalized after being removed from the pavement.

A very wrong safeword !

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safeword is a code word used in BDSM for a submissive (or dominant) to unambiguously communicate his physical or emotional state to the other part, typically when approaching, or crossing, a physical, emotional, or moral boundary.

This is extremely important if the scene involves any play that could be harmful, but is just as important in light play as well. Even if you are just using a toy, a safeword is important to have. You never know when something out of the ordinary will occur.

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Common sense: they should not sexually related and should be very easy to remember. Green, coconut, milkman for example. Bad safewords: anything that can be misconstrued as part of play, such as don’t, stop, etc.

Inside site: The Pain Files

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If hardcore female masochism is your thing, and you are getting tired of seeing porn stars acting out formulaic BDSM scenes, The Pain Files is for you.

Running since 2000, it is one of the most established BDSM sites on the web, and boasts a massive archive of full length hard SM and pain movies and photographs, all of which members of the site can stream without limit, or download and keep.

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The videos are offered in a variety of formats for any imaginable device, along with a full hi-def Windows Media or QuickTime version of each.

The big difference between The Pain Files and most BDSM sites on the web is that the scenes are shot with genuine lifestyle masochistic slave-girls, and all action on the site is very real indeed. As a result the site is not for the faint-hearted, featuring some of the hardest SM scenes you will find anywhere on the web, including needle-play, electro-shock play, heavy clamping and whipping and severe humiliation scenes. There is no acting on this site – the reactions from the girls are all clearly 100% genuine, as are the pain, fear and explosive orgasms depicted.

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The content is a delightful combination of professionally shot, exclusive, in house scenes, featuring real lifestyle amateur girls who want to explore the farthest extremes of masochistic play, and genuine amateur home-made footage, contributed exclusively by members from around the world.

Beyond the 13 year archive, the site is still very much alive, featuring multiple updates every week for members. There are new faces appearing all the time, but also the chance to follow the progress of the established slaves of the site, as they delve deeper and deeper into their masochistic natures.

The Pope breaks another

Kristine Kahill at Sadistic Rope

Kristine Kahill is over 18 and over-the-top hot. This brunette looks like an innocent babe in the woods but from this Sadistic Rope update, it is easy to see that this girl-next-door has built up some kinky needs in her tender age. The Pope brings her close to tears with his carefully orchestrated training. He has her blindfolded and gagged with rope and she is drooling and begging and wailing within the first 4 minutes – and we all know that is just the beginning. Caning, painful orgasms, suspension bondage and more tears are what are in store for this beauty… click on the image to see more…

New site: Shadow Slaves

When it comes to female submission and masochism, Shadow Slaves is a site like no other. Over it’s ten year history, it has built a reputation as one of the most original and extreme SM sites on the web, and a leader in European (English language) BDSM pornography.

Shadow Slaves is a site for the BDSM connoisseur, who wants to view something genuinely different. Shooting 100% exclusive in-house content, from a stable of real life slave-girls, many of whom members have watched progress from basic training to extreme hardcore pain-sluts over the years, the site explores the darker, more brutal, and more personal depths of the female masochistic psyche.

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The action is often very hard and cruel, often deeply humiliating, and the tears, pain and emotions portrayed are unquestionably real, but there is a unique relationship built with the membership, as the girls progress through years of training, that is rare to find on any adult site.

The scenes exhibit some of the greatest originality possible within the world of BDSM, as the genuine fantasies of the slave-girls play out before our eyes, reaching far beyond the usual ‘tied and flogged’ kinky scenes, to outrageously unusual footage of helpless girls being buried alive, pierced head to toe, forced to eat foul garbage, awoken from sleep straight into a brutal scene, public humiliation, head shaving, forced labour and more.

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The Shadow Slaves themselves are a mix of international BDSM models and lifestyle amateurs, but the one thing they all share is a real love of pain and humiliation, and a devotion to lifestyle submission. There is no acting or faking in any of the videos on the site, whether it’s tears, humiliation, orgasms or genuine fear. Many of the girls who began their exploration on this site are now very familiar faces on the more mainstream kink media.

All content on the site, including a decade’s worth of archive material, is available for unlimited download, for members to keep, and the videos from recent years are presented in full hi-def quality. The site updates regularly, with new movies, new faces, the continued trials of the established slaves, and high quality photographs of strenuous and painful bondage. Members have access to a forum where they can talk to both the slave-girls and the male and female dominants on the site, make suggestions, or even request scenes for a specific girl they want to see played out.

Shadow Slaves has been a unique force in BDSM since 2003, and it continues to astonish and surprise weekly as the stable of highly individual slave-girls continue their journey into the darkest reaches of sado-masochism, where the only limit is imagination.

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New site: Sadistic Rope

A new site joins the Kink.com family: Sadistic Ropes.

Sadistic Rope brings you the most intense and brutal torment you’ve ever seen. Their irreverent director, The Pope, commands all the hardcore rope bondage and extreme orgasms, with the girls getting so mind fucked that you can see their souls start to bend.

Sadistic Rope is more than rope bondage. There’s wax play, clothespins, spanking, caning, whipping, electro play, breath play and forced orgasms. Needless to say, the quality is the same high level that you used to find on Kink.com.

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