Third gender in Germany

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Finally, a new law in Germany creates a third sex category on birth records. It could seem like an obvious solution to some problems of intersex: if some babies are born with bodies that are neither clearly male nor female, then it seems there should be some category beside male or female. So, parents will be allowed to chose an X option instead of the typical M or F.

The legislation, which went into effect on Friday Nov. 1, 2013, was enacted in order to give parents and children more time before making life-changing sex reassignment decisions. Germany is the first European nation to offer the third gender designation.

In the past, by contrast, parents have generally relied on physicians to fix intersex children through the use of surgical and hormonal sex normalizations. Instead of individuals deciding for themselves at maturity, decisions concerning sex assignment were made in infancy by physicians and parents. Now, with the new category introduced by German law, the ambiguity presented by infants with atypical sex anatomies can be managed simply with a new label. A very good news.

Index for gay categories

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Hello folks ! Great news ! Index page for gay and shemale content just released !

Fetish Bank is one of the most comprehensive and detailed fetish directory available on the Internet today. There are 146 categories of niche porn, some of them very unusual and hard to find, and this number is increasing month after month. The best part is that all this categories have a subcategory with gay/bisex/shemale content only. This make Fetish Bank one of the best directories for gay porn, too.

Now, I just designed a new gateway page that you can use to quickly access this kind of content, in case you’re not interested in straight porn. This page is accessible via the main menu, at the very top of each page. Just click the GAY button and enjoy your new index.

Please support my effort in trying to make Fetish Bank the top directory for the gay community ! Share this new page with your friends, tweet it, blog it. Also, feel free to suggest niches sites and report problems. Help me making a your directory better !

Internet Adult Film Database

Hello my kinky friends. Today I want to spend a few words about a free service that can be very useful every time you want to know detailed information about an adult movie and/or its performers.

I’m talking about the Internet Adult Film Databasean online database of information about the adult industry, covering actors, actresses, directors and porn movies. It is similar to the Internet Movie Database, in that it is open to the public and is searchable. Yet another who think that information should be handy and free. True Internet philosophy, people like them make the Internet a so great place.

The Internet Adult Film Database, founded in 1995 by Peter van Aarle, is the premier resource for information about the American porn community on the web. At today their database is covering over 132,000 titles and over 121,000 performers and directors, making it the biggest resource of this kind. Everything is maintained by a volunteer staff of editors. The site costs, which must be relevant, are paid by sponsors for ad banners and by affiliate commission from products purchased via their site. The full history of the project, with more details and curiosities, can be found on Wikipedia.

In February 2013, by going through all the data made available on the database, Jon Millward released his analysis titled Deep Inside: a study of 10,000 porn stars and their careers, a massive infographic that looks at the truth about what the average performer looks like, what they do on film, and how their role has evolved over the last forty years.

Hanky Code for gay men

The handkerchief code (also known as the hanky code, the bandana code, and flagging) is a way for gay men to recognize each other on the streets, bar, clubs, movies, and parks. It uses location and colors of the hankies to indicate the sexual interests of the potential sex partners.

Gay men wear different colored hankies in their back pockets to represent their favorite fetish or fetishes. It also represents whether they are more top or bottom. If you wear one of the following hankies in your left pocket you are normally considered a top. If you wear the hanky in your right pocket you are more bottom. Some people wear the hanky around their neck representing they are versatile (top and bottom).




Dark Blue Anal sex top Anal sex bottom
Light Blue Wants oral sex Gives oral sex
Black Heavy S&M top Heavy S&M bottom
Red Fist fucker Fist fuckee
Yellow Piss top Piss bottom
Brown Scat top Scat bottom
Gray Bondage top Bondage bottom
Orange Anythings goes top Anythings goes bottom
White Masturbate me Masturbates other
Purple Piercer Wants to be pierced
Green Hustler, selling Hustler, buying
Olive Drab Uniform/military top Uniform/military bottom
Hunter Green Daddy Daddy’s boy

It used to be a very simple code with just your basic colors like black (SM), red (fisting), yellow (piss), gray (bondage), brown (scat), etc. Somehow this list has begun taking on the entire rainbow of colors.  So don’t take it too seriously if you see some esoteric color.




B&W Check Safe Sex (top) Safe Sex (bottom)
Robin’s Egg Blue 69’er 69’er
Medium Blue Cop Cop sucker
Teal Blue Genital torturer Wants genital torture
Light Pink Dildo giver Dildo receiver
Dark Pink Tit torturer Tit torturee
Dark Red 2-handed fister 2-handed fistee
Mauve Wants navel worshippers Navel worshipper
Magenta Wants armpit worshippers Armpit worshipper
Lavender Wants drag queen Does drag
Pale Yellow Spitter Spit on me
Mustard Has 8″ + Wants 8″ +
Gold 2 looking for 1 Looking for 2 or more
Apricot Chubby Chubby chaser
Coral Foot top Foot licker
Rust Cowboy Wants cowboy
Fuschia Spanker Spank me
Hunter Green Daddy Daddy’s boy
Lime Green Food top Smear me with food
Beige Rimmee Rimmer
Brown Lace Uncut Wants uncut
Brown Satin Cut Wants cut
Charcoal Rubber top Rubber bottom
Gray Flannel Suit Suit chaser
Cream Sleaze top Sleaze bottom
Red & White Stripe Shaver Shave me
Black & White Stripe Wants black bottom Wants black top
Brown & White Stripe Wants Latino bottom Wants Latino top
Yellow & White Stripe Wants Oriental bottom Wants Oriental top
White Lace Wants white bottom Wants white top
Paisley Wears boxers Wants boxer shorts
Gold Lame Wants muscleboy Wants muscle top
Leopard Has tattoos Likes tattoos
Tan Cigar top Likes cigar tops
Teddy Bear Cuddler Cuddlee
Dirty Jockstrap Wears one Wants one
Chamois Biker Wants biker
Cocktail Napkin Bartender Barfly
Mosquito Netting Outdoor top Outdoor bottom

This long elaborate lists, like others found on the web, are more imaginative and the many color codes in them are less often used in practice, although most of the colors in longer lists are offered as bandanas for sale at almost all LGBT leather stores along with free color code cards listing their meanings.

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New category: crossdressing

Hello kinky friends. So, here we are with a new category: crossdressing.

Crossdressing, shorten in cd, refers to the act of wearing clothing and other accoutrements commonly associated with the opposite sex, infact there are male and female crossdressers.

To satisfy your curiosity: the word shemale, most common in porn, is used to describe trans women with male genitalia and augmented female breasts from breast augmentation and/or use of hormones. Transvestite, shorten in tv, refers to a person who cross-dresses. Transgender is the state of one’s gender identity not matching one’s assigned sex. Note that transgender does not imply any specific form of sexual orientation; transgender people may identify as heterosexual, homosexual, bisexual, pansexual, polysexual, or asexual. Transsexual is a person who was assigned a sex at birth on the basis of his genitals, but despite that assignment identifies as the other sex and is transitioning or has transitioned to the other gender role and has or will have an other gender body.

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You can find information, characteristics and history of these fetishisms on Wikipedia.