Hanky Code for gay men

The handkerchief code (also known as the hanky code, the bandana code, and flagging) is a way for gay men to recognize each other on the streets, bar, clubs, movies, and parks. It uses location and colors of the hankies to indicate the sexual interests of the potential sex partners.

Gay men wear different colored hankies in their back pockets to represent their favorite fetish or fetishes. It also represents whether they are more top or bottom. If you wear one of the following hankies in your left pocket you are normally considered a top. If you wear the hanky in your right pocket you are more bottom. Some people wear the hanky around their neck representing they are versatile (top and bottom).

COLOR

LEFT

RIGHT

Dark Blue Anal sex top Anal sex bottom
Light Blue Wants oral sex Gives oral sex
Black Heavy S&M top Heavy S&M bottom
Red Fist fucker Fist fuckee
Yellow Piss top Piss bottom
Brown Scat top Scat bottom
Gray Bondage top Bondage bottom
Orange Anythings goes top Anythings goes bottom
White Masturbate me Masturbates other
Purple Piercer Wants to be pierced
Green Hustler, selling Hustler, buying
Olive Drab Uniform/military top Uniform/military bottom
Hunter Green Daddy Daddy’s boy

It used to be a very simple code with just your basic colors like black (SM), red (fisting), yellow (piss), gray (bondage), brown (scat), etc. Somehow this list has begun taking on the entire rainbow of colors.  So don’t take it too seriously if you see some esoteric color.

COLOR

LEFT

RIGHT

B&W Check Safe Sex (top) Safe Sex (bottom)
Robin’s Egg Blue 69’er 69’er
Medium Blue Cop Cop sucker
Teal Blue Genital torturer Wants genital torture
Light Pink Dildo giver Dildo receiver
Dark Pink Tit torturer Tit torturee
Dark Red 2-handed fister 2-handed fistee
Mauve Wants navel worshippers Navel worshipper
Magenta Wants armpit worshippers Armpit worshipper
Lavender Wants drag queen Does drag
Pale Yellow Spitter Spit on me
Mustard Has 8″ + Wants 8″ +
Gold 2 looking for 1 Looking for 2 or more
Apricot Chubby Chubby chaser
Coral Foot top Foot licker
Rust Cowboy Wants cowboy
Fuschia Spanker Spank me
Hunter Green Daddy Daddy’s boy
Lime Green Food top Smear me with food
Beige Rimmee Rimmer
Brown Lace Uncut Wants uncut
Brown Satin Cut Wants cut
Charcoal Rubber top Rubber bottom
Gray Flannel Suit Suit chaser
Cream Sleaze top Sleaze bottom
Red & White Stripe Shaver Shave me
Black & White Stripe Wants black bottom Wants black top
Brown & White Stripe Wants Latino bottom Wants Latino top
Yellow & White Stripe Wants Oriental bottom Wants Oriental top
White Lace Wants white bottom Wants white top
Paisley Wears boxers Wants boxer shorts
Gold Lame Wants muscleboy Wants muscle top
Leopard Has tattoos Likes tattoos
Tan Cigar top Likes cigar tops
Teddy Bear Cuddler Cuddlee
Dirty Jockstrap Wears one Wants one
Chamois Biker Wants biker
Cocktail Napkin Bartender Barfly
Mosquito Netting Outdoor top Outdoor bottom

This long elaborate lists, like others found on the web, are more imaginative and the many color codes in them are less often used in practice, although most of the colors in longer lists are offered as bandanas for sale at almost all LGBT leather stores along with free color code cards listing their meanings.

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Kinky activities: dogging

wikipedia iconHow kinky are you ? And how kinky is your partner ? Wouldn’t be nice to experiment something new ? Ok, lets talk about a kinky game, not a real new one, as people have been doing it for over a decade now. Probably the craze started in the year 2003, after a report of the BBC, but the origin come from very very far. Well, I know it is not something suitable for everyone, but keep reading as fantasying about it can be exciting as well. Still can’t figure what I’m talking about ?

Dogging ! It is about having sex with more than one person in a public or semi-public place, often with at least one stranger, and usually with others watching. Hence a more or less spontaneous meeting point between exhibitionists and voyeurs. Isn’t it cool ? The funniest part of this game is that everyone can find a comfortable role: watching only, touching, fucking or be the one in the center of the scene.

Dogging started in the later part of the 20th century, in the UK, with locations mainly being public car parks and lay-bys with activity normally taking place after dark. Doggers, so are called the players, would usually leave their interior lights on in their cars so that other doggers would know that they too were doggers. Some flash their headlights at other cars or flick the interior light on briefly. These are the most common signs to show that one is a dogger. This activity has now become much more organized with regular meeting places, and more or less a free-for-all spirit.

The term dogging originated in the early 1970s to describe men who spied on couples having sex outdoors, these men would ‘dog’ the couples’ every move and watch them. An alternative etymology posits dog-walking as the origin of the term, blokes taking their dogs for walks and stumbling across couples at it in bushes etc. They originally only spied on these couples. And you ? What do you think to do now ? : P

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pictures courtesy of adult site “dogging missions

On the Fetish Bank Directory the categories with some dogging content are: public nudity, voyeurism, outdoor porn, and British porn. In my long list of thing to do there’s already a point about opening a category dedicated to the dogging. Right now I’m very interested in collecting more links to informative sites, communities, and clubs for swinger and doggers, especially those that are free access. If you have some good links, please share sending them to me. I’ll make them available to the community ! Share is care !

Model: Leah Caprice

The paraprincess Leah Caprice is a English babe in her mid twenties who had an unlucky fall back in 2008. It has tied her to a wheelchair ever since, but in no way has it killed her high spirits or made her any less sexy. Being a paraplegic porn star may have its difficulties but as Leah Caprice shows you a strong cocktail of willpower and unrelenting exhibitionism overcomes even the biggest of challenges. Live life to the max with Leah Caprice and join her out in the streets nude in public.

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Leah Caprice may be an unlikely ambassador for paraplegics but nonetheless she has worked tirelessly to raise awareness of the handicap and not least to show how sexy, unphased and entirely bubbly its possible to still be. Leah has done charity naked skydiving, done dating programs on UKs main television channel BBC, featured in documentaries and not least invited UK Flashers out for delightful days of flashing and public on the streets of England for pure fun and pleasure.

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  • Name: Leah Caprice Age: 25
  • Relationship: Single / Unmarried
  • Nationality: English / UK
  • Favorite Color: Pink Favorite
  • Clothing: None
  • Nickname: Paraprincess
  • Profession: Adult Model
  • Haircolor: Brown / Brunette
  • Sexuality: Nympho Exhibitionist
  • Handicap: Parapletic due to accident

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You can find all her videos and photo sets on UK Flashers.

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